Reason #3 -- When she pulls away, do this instead...


10 Reasons the Divorce Bomb Course
Can Change Your Life

REASON #3

We give you clear, specific, effective direction for getting strikingly clear about your situation, owning your part in it, and taking the best path forward for you—no matter what she says or does.

You need to know how much power and influence you still have right now. We’ll tell you things about the “secret power” of your masculine mojo your dad never told you… and we also won’t let you off the hook for the ways you helped create the mess you’re in.

We teach you how to accept what’s happened and lead your marriage forward without being a wrecking ball. And we teach you how to become outcome independent in a way that builds trust and credibility in the changes you’re making.

When she pulls away, most men chase harder. Trying to have more talks, sending more texts, and more explaining. And it doesn't work.

Do this instead: slow down, get grounded, and lead with calm clarity.

For example, if she says, “I need space,” say something like:

“I hear you. I’ll give you space. I want you to feel any pressure. Let me know if you want to talk about it in the future.”

When you say something like that with calm, confident love -- and you meant it -- she will feel the release of pressure and exhale.

Let's be clear. This isn’t about saying the perfect thing. It’s about becoming steady enough to lead — even when she’s unsure — and creating a climate in your marriage that is safe and welcoming for her.

That's the kind of thing we teach in this course. It may sound counterintuitive, but trust us, it works.

An In-Depth, Laser-Focused, Online Course Designed To Give You Back Your Masculine Confidence, Clarity, Peace, Happiness, and Mojo When Your Marriage Is On the Rocks.

From December 21, 2025, to midnight December 31, 2025, you get a lifetime membership to the entire comprehensive course + all the live coaching calls + the private men’s support community for only two payments of $125!

BONUS: If you join between now and the end of the year, we will give you four live 20-minute one-on-one coaching calls with either Tim or Steve as you complete each module in the course. We've never done this before, and we may not do it again, so now is the time to take advantage of this offer!

Here's what you get:

  • Over 8 hours of video coaching modules
  • Private LIVE group coaching calls every month
  • A SECRET online group of over 800 men who get what you're going through and will have your back
  • FOUR live 20-minute. one-on-one coaching calls with either Steve or Tim as you finish each of the 4 modules (VALUE: $1000)

P.S. If you’re wondering what the course actually sounds like, the page has FOUR SAMPLE VIDEOS from Modules 1–4 so you can get a real taste before you commit.

We hope to see you on our next live call on January 7th, 2026.

Tons of love,

Steve & Tim

P.S. If you’re wondering what the course actually sounds like, the page has FOUR SAMPLE VIDEOS from Modules 1–4 so you can get a real taste before you commit.

www.HowToDefuseTheDivorceBomb.com

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